The Chopra Center Newsletter     Apr 2012 Edition 

RESTORE YOUR
EMOTIONAL WELLBEING

Residential Treatment
at Paradise Valley

If you or a loved one are seeking professional support in overcoming an addiction, the Chopra Center has partnered with Paradise Valley Wellness Centre to create a life-transforming recovery program in beautiful Squamish, British Columbia.

Based on the Chopra Center’s approach to mind-body healing, the  6-week and 28-day residential programs at Paradise Valley Wellness Center  are led by a team of experienced and compassionate professionals with a deep and broad range of expertise, including certified addictionologists, psychiatrists, therapists, healing arts masters, and teachers of meditation, yoga, and other practices for well-being. At Paradise Valley, you will experience:

  • Morning and evening meditation and yoga sessions led each day by Chopra Center Certified Teachers

  • Instruction in the timeless tools and techniques of Ayurveda

  • Therapeutic body work, including acupuncture and massage treatments

  • The collective energy of a well-balanced loving staff committed to modeling connection, healing, and wholeness

  • Healing drumming sessions and art therapy

  • Experiential group therapy with psychodrama: a blend of theatre and therapy that taps into the body’s inner wisdom

  • Medical and psychiatric/ addiction expertise to help with psychological issues

  • Delicious vegetarian meals prepared by a top-rated chef

  • Individual psychotherapy

  • Private access to Paradise Valley’s ten lush garden acres

The program includes tremendous attention and support for continuing care, including 12 weeks of therapy in your local community to ensure the integration and repeated practice of new healthier, happier ways of being!

Learn more about Paradise Valley >>

RECLAIM YOUR
HAPPINESS IN 2012

Healing the Heart Workshop
June 1–3, 2012

If you’re seeking to heal from a painful experience, event, or relationship, our Healing the Heart workshop will help you heal your heart, find freedom from the past, and rediscover love and joy.

Healing the Heart is an intensive 3-day workshop where you will be guided in a powerful process developed by
Dr. David Simon to identify, release, and heal stored emotional pain.

In the safe, compassionate setting of the Chopra Center, you will finally let go of the toxic emotions, painful memories, and conditioned beliefs that have kept you from experiencing your essential wholeness and lovability.

7 Steps to Lasting Change:
Finding Freedom from Addiction

by Deepak Chopra, M.D., F.A.C.P.

Many years ago when I was supervising an addictions unit at the Boston Veterans Administration Hospital, I had a patient with chronic obstructive lung disease who had been on a ventilator for two weeks. I finally weaned him off and two days later, I saw him outside the hospital smoking through his tracheotomy. I began to realize that addiction is the number one disease of our civilization. It is prevalent at all levels of society and is directly and indirectly linked to all other diseases, including cardiovascular disease, many types of cancer, diabetes, and other illnesses. Addiction to toxic behaviors, substances, relationships, and environments all create toxicity in the body, which can ultimately manifest as illness.

Human beings seem to have an infinite capacity to become addicted to almost anything. In addition to physical addictions such as the addiction to drugs, alcohol, tobacco, and food, there are a psychological and behavior addictions, including the addiction to work, to sex, to exercise, to gambling, to surfing the Internet, to watching television, to shopping, to appearing young, to suffering, to creating drama, and to trying to achieve perfection.

Why are so many people addicted?
Scientists and other experts have studied addiction for many years, yet its root cause remains the subject of intense debate. What has become clear to me is that addictions bring pleasure to people who cannot find it any other way. If you have a problem with alcohol or are addicted to cigarettes, food, or anything else, it is because at some point you associated pleasure, or at least relief, with the given substance or behavior. The goal of every behavior is comfort and inner peace.  Whether you seek comfort through meditation, hugging your spouse, or drinking a martini, the intention is the same: We all engage in behaviors that relieve anxiety and help us feel more comfortable within ourselves.

Childhood Roots of Addiction
Many people struggle with addictive behaviors that developed in response to difficult experiences in their early childhood. A comprehensive study led by Dr. Vincent Felitti and Dr. Robert Anda found strong evidence that children who experience adverse childhood experiences are much more likely to develop destructive compulsive behavior as adults.  The ongoing 15-year-old Adverse Childhood Experiences Study – one of the largest scientific studies of its kind – involves more than 17,000 adult participants who became members of the Kaiser Permanente health care organization in San Diego between 1995 and 1997. Felitti and Anda defined nine major categories of adverse childhood experiences (before age 18):

  1. Recurrent physical abuse
  2. Recurrent emotional abuse
  3. Contact sexual abuse
  4. An alcohol and/or drug abuser in the household
  5. An incarcerated household member
  6. Someone who is chronically depressed, mentally ill, institutionalized, or suicidal
  7. Mother is treated violently
  8. One or no parents
  9. Emotional or physical neglect

The researchers found a strong correlation between the number of adverse childhood experiences participants reported and  the development of a wide range of physical, emotional, and social problems, including depression, obesity, alcoholism, smoking, and substance abuse.

People develop addictions for a reason, and often that reason has its roots in childhood. Even if you didn’t experience such blatantly traumatic events as abuse or violence, you may have grown up with parents or caregivers who were remove, unavailable, or unable to meet your basic needs for understanding, comfort, approval, acceptance, and love. 

As a child, you had a limited repertoire of ways to express your dissatisfaction. When your needs weren’t met, you may have acted out and thrown a tantrum, or pouted and become withdrawn. If your needs continued to be unmet, you may have begun to seek out other ways to soothe your feelings of abandonment. As you were growing up, you may have discovered that drinking a six-pack of beer or smoking a joint offered temporary relief, leaving you with a net positive impression in your consciousness. Impressions in consciousness give rise to desires, and your desire for relief might have spurred you to repeat the behavior in order to regain the experience that initially brought you pleasure or relief. 

With each indulgence, the experience recruits more neural networks in the brain to reinforce the pattern. At the same time, relationships and activities that reinforce the habit become more dominant over those that do not.  For example, you may start choosing to spend more time in places that reinforce your habit (bars, clubs, casinos, shopping malls), deepening the impressions that give rise to desires. This is how repeated experiences generate psychological and physiological patterns that deepen the habits of behavior. 

Achieving Escape Velocity
To heal an addiction, you first need to recognize the destructive patterns of conditioned behavior that are dominating your life. When you’re caught in a maze, you may not be able to find your way out if you wander aimlessly around the web. The best way to escape is to find a new perspective outside and above the entrapment you unknowingly created.

7 Steps to Lasting Change

Expanding awareness through knowledge and experience is the key to making a successful break for freedom. In working with many people struggling with addiction, my colleague David Simon and I became convinced that the following actions are crucial in creating lasting change:

  1. Make a commitment to transformation. Ask yourself, Am I ready to change? If your answer is yes, then set your intention and don’t allow distractions to pull you off course.

  2. Make a commitment not to repeat the mistakes of the past. Life is an evolutionary process, so this step isn’t about wasting time or energy harshly judging yourself. Instead, focus your intentions on letting go of past behaviors and place your attention on healing and awakening.

  3. Face the harsh reality of the present. When you’re lost, you need to determine, as best you can, where you are. You may feel unhappy or distressed about your current state, but this is your reality for now.  Accepting it while recognizing your capacity to change is the beginning of healing.

  4. See the infinite possibilities in the present moment. The universe is infinitely creative. As an expression of the universe, you also have an unimaginable capacity to create something new. Set a different intention, make new choices, and new possibilities will emerge.

  5. Envision where you want to be. Your intentions and desires propel your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions. Imagine a life filled with the peace, love, and joy that you deserve.

  6. Ask yourself what choices you need to make to fulfill your vision. Imagine that each choice orchestrates a cascade of consequence. Envision the choices that have the greatest likelihood of manifesting the life you want to lead.

  7. Take action to execute your choices. For your world to change, you need to take action on your intentions. Envision what you want to see unfold and begin to take small steps to bring you closer to fulfillment. Be the change you want to see in your life.

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