Over the past number of years I have been on a quest to find love in my life, a life partner! I have had many relationships which have failed for all sorts of reasons. I had one major relationship that I thought was “the one” but he broke my heart. This took me a significant amount of time to get over & I still have feelings for this person 3years on. I did have another relationship and thought I was in love but this also ended as I realized I was not! I really want to have a loving relationship and have been practicing positive thinking and Synchrodestiny! I’m just feeling disillusioned and want to remain open to receiving love in my life. Can you offer your guidance?
Ask Deepak: Quest for Love
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Deepak's Response:
It might help if you can recast your perspective on your quest for love in a life partner, to see it more as a journey of the deepening and maturation of love in your own heart. Just as a little girl who wants to be a grown woman, doesn’t attain that in any one single event, but rather through a series of life experiences and knowledge. In the same way, finding love in your life is not a matter of finding the right guy, but instead letting your relationship experiences reveal more mature and wiser love in your heart.
Learning that what you thought was love for someone was not love is a valuable insight into finding real love. Even going through the process of having your heart broken teaches you something profound about yourself and love. So even if you haven’t found your life partner yet, you are well on your way to finding your loving heart, and that is what truly matters.
Love,
Deepak
